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    Ex-industry worker or survivor?

    You are brave and beautiful. I think you are making a wise decision in being by yourself for the time being. It will be exciting, scary and wonderful to discover YOU. The woman God made you to be. I am out of the business now for 11 years and I have a life I never would have dreamed...
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    Should feel ashamed, instead I feel nothing.

    Hey Jess, sorry I haven't been around for a while. I've been thinking about you too- should have come back sooner. @ Paul, clubs don't protect women. They exploit them, take advantage of them and degrade them. And so do the men who frequent the clubs. Women who come out of the sex...
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    X Girls

    Harmony Dust is an ex-stripper, Crissy Moran is an ex-porn star and Bronwen Healey is an ex-prostitute. This series, called X Girls is an excellent place to start looking at possibiliites. No one is too far gone. Please watch this amazing series. It will give you hope...
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    Roll Call

    Just happened to pop by today. I used to come here a lot years ago. In fact, there's a guy named JefferyLloyd that is partially responsible for my conversion to Catholicism 5 years ago. I met him here and he ended up MAILING me a bunch of literature (including books) and a rosaary. I've...
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    Should feel ashamed, instead I feel nothing.

    Good to hear from you again Jess. It sounds like we have a lot in common. I really struggled with my family too especially when I was dancing. We still have our issues but being 3000 miles away from them helps a lot. lol I've kind of made my own family of friends over the past 10 years...
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    Should feel ashamed, instead I feel nothing.

    Hi there Jess and welcome to SOSI. This is a safe place and we are glad to meet you. I'm Paula and I was a stripper for about 15 years so honey, I totally get what you are saying. I remember that feeling very well. I also remember letting guys get away with more over the years and caring...
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    Hi

    You're not JUST a stripper honey. You are a daughter of God, a precious jewel who deserves to be treated with love and respect. I have many memories of the royal jerks. It's one of the hardest parts of the job, isn't it? I'm sorry you had a rough go of it.
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    Hi

    Hi Sarah!:wave: It's nice to meet you and good to have you join us though I wish it wasn't necessary. I'm Paula and I was a stripper for about a thousand years. ^_^(ok, more like 15) I also escorted on a couple of occassions. I've been out for 9 years now. I never thought I would be able to get...
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    Missing you...

    I think your feelings are perfectly warranted honey. I can't imagine how you feel though. You know you are doing the best thing for him Court. You've got to keep that in mind and trust God. He is going to make new friends and have a whole new exciting journey. and you are too. I love you...
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    I have to confess this secret...

    It seems pretty obvious, don't you think, where your security issues stem from? It might be best to distance yourself from your mom. I'm not saying stop communicating with her but a little distance may be healthy for you. You have had some excellent insights about your past and into wanting...
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    I have to confess this secret...

    Hi there Ellie. :wave: It's good to have you join us, though as Blondie (Courtney) says, I wish there was no need for it. I was in the industry for over a decade and am out for almost a decade now. I have also, unfortunately had experience with abortion. I aborted my first child 25 years ago...
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    Missing you...

    I wish.....
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    Missing you...

    Court, I think it would be FANTASTIC if you got back into weight training and even competitions. You need, and everyone needs, something of their OWN to focus on, to strive for. Good for you! I am heading to the Toastmasters British Columbia finals this weekend actually and I am hoping to...
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    Missing you...

    I hear you girl. I'll make more of an effort to come back here more often. This is a special place - annointed by God I believe. We have seen miracles happen here and this forum has been a part of it. My apologies for letting it slide.
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    [moved] Pole Dancing Classes

    I remember that thread very well Court. It was in the married women's section. A lot of them were gung ho until we gave them a few real things to think about.