Recent content by abelievingman

Hey, brother, thank you for your prayers first and foremost! Yesterday we had a discussion about the voice and she seems to think it's a sign to warn her about our relationship. When asked what does the voice say she didn't give an answer, that it's rather trivial and insignificant. I did...

Thank you, brother and I am sorry to hear about your struggles. Is your marriage not salvageable at all? I hope you find peace in God's word and presence. I should have come clean a long time ago.

Thank you for your kind words and tips. Yes, talking to someone for so long every day does feel special and fantastic. Especially when both of you are in love with one another. We had a discussion in June on the topic of marriage and she said that she will marry me. Then again, that was then...

Hey, thank you for the detailed explanation of how to repost. Am using a phone now and it appears to be easier from here. We spoke yesterday about us going to a church and have a pastor pray for us. Or that I can introduce her to a pastor of the church I attend. Or a pastor of the church she...

Yes, am fully on board with her and I having a Christian counselling. I've shared this idea with her and how having a neutral person in Christ praying for us will be great. That she needs that voice to be purged and vivid nightmares to be ceased. Her response was that she's praying for herself...

Thank you for all the words of wisdom. It seems like you understand the gist of the problems fully and yes, it should be forgive and forget. Otherwise there will be nagging and bringing it up further. Seen it happening with other couples, married people, older folks etc. In regards to her not...

It is wrong and I've apologised a handful of times but am still feeling guilty of it. Do you reckon the trust can be back ? She's now acting cold towards me (expected) but am also having concerns over her hearing a voice. I've asked her to link herself with a pastor for the purpose of...

Sorry, I don't know how to repost. I suspect my prayers are not in a good time. About the falling in love, I personally disgaree with this but that's just my take. She was crying because of those lies from the past which I perpetuated over time. That is why I was asking of whether I have done...

Hey guys, thank you so much for your responds! She contacted me earlier today to say she has been crying a lot and that am cruel. I told her to forgive me and it seems like she has had but one more dishonesty and am out. I asked her what is it with the all words and not actions, what does she...

Sorry, I didn't mention our ages. I recently turned 28 and she will be 27 next month.

Hey there fellow Christians, This might be a tad long and detailed so please bear with me. I want to lay out all of the facts with the hope someone will offer an unbiased/impartial input. Brace yourselves for a descriptive read... My now girlfriend and I met on a dating app (Christians Dating...